5. I am not afraid to ask questions, and I am ready for any answer
When we were younger, we were afraid to ask any question about something we didn’t understand. We didn’t want to be exposed to stress. We were worried that we would be hurt or scare him. But it is this lack of clarity that hurts us. I don’t want to be hurt anymore, so I’m ready to clarify everything.
4. I no longer mix * s with love
Everything can be connected with love. But, on the other hand, he does not have to have any contact points with love.
Love is for me when it is silent in the morning because I love silence. When he remembers my dog’s name and how much sugar I put in my coffee; when he fixes my laptop or something that broke; when he surprises me with something beautiful… If there is none of this, it means we just sleep together.
3. I am not jealous of his friends or girlfriends, nor of his work
Nor to his children from a past marriage (relationship). If a man loves me, he will find time for me. I can accept that because I also have a constantly busy job.
If we both find time for each other, everything is fine – our relationship survives.
If only I find time for him, and he is always busy, that is not good, and it shows that it is time for a change.
2. I don’t iron his T-shirts and shirts. I don’t like ironing
I don’t like ironing my own things, let alone other people’s. I refuse to do anything for a man if I don’t want to do it. If he loves me, he’ll iron his shirt.
1. I don’t try to look better because of a man
In fact, when I meet someone new, I can be cynical, too honest. I am not ashamed to talk about my problems and difficulties. Someone who wants to can always find out more about me.
I am almost 42 years old, like a bamboo stalk. Direct, robust, flexible, and not so demanding. It’s hard to break me, bend me at will, or uproot me. The hardships of life have hardened me, and I still want to love. I’m just not ready to sacrifice myself for someone. Love is creation, not destruction and sacrifice. So then, let’s create.
